“A leader is best when people barely know he exists when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.” — Lao Tzu
The Guru of all Guru’s in the field of EI, Daniel Goleman, Google Search Inside Yourself Institute and many other researchers proved that it’s EI that makes the difference between a truly effective leader and the rest. Intelligence (IQ) and technical skills are important for leaders too, and they are threshold capabilities. Being a leader, it is emotional intelligence that makes all the difference.
Why wait. Act now!
When I was 40 I knew two things.
I felt unfulfilled in my career, stretched between motherhood and managing a team.
I knew though that I would do anything to be happy in life.
The Power of Work-Life Balance
In current times, being “connected” 24/7, high workload and stressful situations are at the order of the day. We are mainly externally focussed, busy with “doing” instead of “being”.
We are born as human beings, not human doers, just something to think about. What would happen if we do less of doing and more of being? I found power in slowing down to go fast!
And how to create a new empowering pattern
Do you recognize that feeling of having so much to do that you feel tired? No time to do the things that inspire and motivate you? And while being so busy, if you zoom out and look for the reason why, you’ll find that you are at cause for it yourself? Then it’s time to pay attention to the NO below the YES.
Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes
Wie herkent dat gevoel; zoveel te doen, alles tegelijk willen doen, alles heel goed willen doen en maar door. Werk, huishouden, kinderen, hobby’s, vrienden, familie? En jezelf maar afvragen hoe het toch komt dat je zo weinig energie hebt en je zo lastig kunt concentreren? Als jij dit gevoel herkent, dan kun je NU gebruik maken van de kracht van Focus.
Your external world is a mere reflection of your inner world.
“Perception is Projection” is one of the most empowering themes of Neuro Linguistic Programming. The concept, which has its roots in Jungian psychology, tells us that what we see outside of ourselves is, at some level and in some way, a reflection of who we are on the inside.
Release your inner Dragon...
Do you want to be free of limiting beliefs and patterns? Do you want to be at peace with yourself? One thing that can help is to see how your ‘childhood dragon’ affects your relationships, your work, and life. If you can see it you can be free as it allows you to make new decisions, which will change your life.
To See is To Be Free
Two techniques for energetic self care
Maybe you recognize this situation; you enter a room, or you come in contact with certain people, or situations and either immediately or afterwards you feel drained, tired or exhausted. Then it is time to start to protect and cleanse your energy field.